Search Previous Posts

Search All Categories

Daily Habits Quotes

"When things are in order, they're easier to deal with."— Dr.Purushothaman Kollam

Why A Personal Manifesto Is Important

I’ve written a manifesto that serves as a guide for my life. Think about it for a moment; aren’t you familiar with your own thoughts and feelings? No, I don’t suffer from dementia or a mental illness of any kind. I believe that as you get older, you begin to discover who you are. I summarised what I’ve learned in a graphic manifesto, which I originally made for personal use. My values and the way I want to live my life are brought back into focus. A great deal of one’s core values can be thrown out the window when times are tough. When things get tough, I tend to fall back on my default response of “I don’t give a shit.” However, the truth is that I care. My manifesto serves as a reminder of who I want to be. “This is how I am” is a common refrain.

Read More »

We Should Solve Our Problems On The Spot

Everyone has issues. No one I know has ever had an ideal life. I’m going to have to rephrase that. I’ve come across people who are constantly pretending to have a perfect life. In the same way, you ask someone, “How are you?” when you first meet them, Often, they’re just full of shit when they start talking about how wonderful their life is, and how wonderful everything is going for them. Real people, on the other hand, have issues. What’s the matter with you? A bad relationship won’t let you go? Depressed? Here’s some help. Are you always dishonest? What’s the matter? Substance abusers? What about video games, pornography, and dating, for example? You’re unable to stop moaning? The world and everyone in it makes you angry. Are your parents still in touch with you? Keep putting off important tasks? I’m a person who truly cares about other people’s

Read More »

Excessive Talking Is Always Ruin Your Success

Talking is one of my favourite pastimes. This is how I’ve always been. When I was 14, I and a friend watched Fight Club twice in a row because it blew our minds. That movie captivated us for hours. We started late and didn’t finish until 5 a.m. the next morning. It was an amazing experience. In addition, I’ve had numerous late-night discussions with friends, girlfriends, and family members on a wide range of topics (with the exception of news, politics, and religion, which I avoid at all costs). My mind gets a kick out of talking. There is sex for the brain in deep conversation, as well. Two things hold true, however, when it comes to the habit of oversharing. 1. When you’re talking, your ears are closed. I became a person who was always looking for an opportunity to speak. I always had something to say when I

Read More »

A New Way Of Looking At Optimism

Since I write about personal development and investing, you might be surprised to learn that I’m a pessimist at heart. The pull of pessimism is so strong that I had to force me to adopt an optimistic outlook on life. An optimist, on the other hand, has a more pessimistic outlook on life. Philosophically, an optimist is someone who believes that good will eventually triumph over evil and that our world is on the right path. The opposite is true of a pessimist. If you believe evil is always victorious, you are a pessimist. We’re going to go extinct soon enough. People, in my opinion, aren’t all in or all out. As a general rule, most people are prone to both optimism and pessimism. When it comes to technology or the climate, many people have a very pessimistic outlook. When it comes to green energy or the ability to educate

Read More »

We Should Not Defend Our Ideas

When someone attacked or criticised my ideas, I used to feel the need to defend myself. “I’m going to have to say something!” But now I’m not sure what the point is anymore. You can’t make someone else change their mind. When was the last time this was said? Well, John and I disagreed on X. Nonetheless, John’s argument convinced me to re-evaluate what I believe. This will be the beginning of a new chapter of my life. “John was absolutely correct! “For the life of me, I can’t recall ever hearing anything like that. In the workplace, in your home and even while working out at a gym, you’ll find yourself in disagreement with others on a regular basis. When was the last time you felt the need to stand up for your beliefs? We’re enslaved by our own ideas and spend our time trying to persuade others that

Read More »

My Views On Work-Life Balance

Is it exhausting trying to find a work-life equilibrium? Getting through this is a challenge. On the one hand, there’s a job, a promotion, a goal, and a paycheck. Health, family, friends and holidays are all on the other side of the coin. Here’s the big question: How do you do it all? To achieve a healthy work-life balance, one must set priorities and divide one’s time between work and personal responsibilities. What’s your occupation? pursuing one’s career versus finding a life partner Take a chance or play it safe? Intrinsic rewards vs. chasing money. Relaxation vs. working To give or not to give Self-centeredness as opposed to altruism Spending time with loved ones vs. spending time with others Making a decision appears to be an insurmountable challenge. The end result? Anxiety, stress, and worry. People who believe they don’t have the time or energy to devote to their personal

Read More »

Unnecessary Competition Is Not A Good Thing

Nature’s laws were straightforward in antiquity. You would die if you didn’t compete for food, shelter, or sex. There is still a lot of competition for those things, but it actually makes us weaker. Two things can go wrong when we compete. We begin copying our competitors. We spend too much time focusing on our competition rather than our own company. Imitating competitors in our personal lives is a common trend. We’re all in it for the money, whether it’s with our co-workers, friends, or even our own families. You’ll be stripped of your sense of self and dignity as a result of this. True power comes from within oneself. Avoid comparing yourself to others. It isn’t necessary to drive a more expensive car. This can also be used in the workplace. It was during this time that Apple became one of the world’s leading technology companies. Microsoft squandered a

Read More »

Understanding Your Personal Development

There is no universally agreed-upon definition of what it means to “develop one’s personal brand.” Furthermore, there is no single method for measuring it. When it comes to personal growth, what exactly is the term “personal”? Using the word implies that there is some sort of progression. If that’s the case, where are you in the process right now? In this article, I’ll provide a brief answer to those questions. With this information, you’ll be able to better yourself. What does it mean to “develop oneself”? If you’re interested in personal growth, I mean activities that will help you become a more trustworthy person. Anyone on whom you can rely. It’s the new age equivalent of philosophy, in my opinion. Philosophy was primarily a practical pursuit in Ancient Rome. There were schools where you could learn how to improve yourself. Since then, philosophy has been elevated to an academic discipline.

Read More »

Some Life Tips To Be Happy & Successful

What are some of your strongest professional assets? Let’s take a look at some of the common practices of wealthy individuals: Making sacrifices today for a better tomorrow: This is common among those who have accomplished significant goals. For most athletes, winning a gold medal at the Olympics is a lifelong pursuit. Working through pain: All of us have been hurt at some point in our lives; we’re all human beings. Those who succeed often overcome adversity. They are more tolerant of pain. They’re not going to give up. Single-minded focus: When someone has a lofty goal in mind, they devote nearly all of their attention and energy to that goal. They’ve been doing the same thing for a long time. You’ll get a variety of answers based on the information provided above, depending on who you ask. “That’s the only way to succeed,” some claim. Some people think it’s

Read More »

What I Did To Get Personal Freedom In Life

True personal freedom means being able to do and be with whomever you want whenever you want it. Personal liberty is, for the majority of us, a pipe dream. Obligations that we never wanted, to begin with, have us tethered to the ground. So why do we still find ourselves living a life we don’t want, despite the fact that we know better? Because the truth is too painful to face, we choose to live in delusion. Epictetus, the stoic philosopher, once said: “No one desires to live in deception. “The question is, “Who wants to live a life of deception—tripped up, wrong, ungrounded, whining, stuck in the mud? There is no one. As a result, “no base person is free,” because these people do not live as they please. It’s a given that everything comes at a cost. To put it another way, what does it take to truly

Read More »