Everyone has issues. No one I know has ever had an ideal life. I’m going to have to rephrase that. I’ve come across people who are constantly pretending to have a perfect life. In the same way, you ask someone, “How are you?” when you first meet them, Often, they’re just full of shit when they start talking about how wonderful their life is, and how wonderful everything is going for them.
Real people, on the other hand, have issues. What’s the matter with you?
- A bad relationship won’t let you go?
- Depressed? Here’s some help.
- Are you always dishonest?
- What’s the matter?
- Substance abusers? What about video games, pornography, and dating, for example?
- You’re unable to stop moaning?
- The world and everyone in it makes you angry.
- Are your parents still in touch with you?
- Keep putting off important tasks?
I’m a person who truly cares about other people’s well-being. As a result, when I meet new people, I make an effort to learn about them. I’ve also met people from all over the world over the past decade. And, since I began blogging a year ago, I’ve established connections with over a thousand people worldwide. Do you want to know something? There are problems in everyone’s life. I’m terrible at relationships, for example. My patience has run thin. When it comes to second chances, I’m not a big fan. I’m not perfect, but I’m working on it. I need to fix those issues. The problem is that most people will never take action to fix their issues. And what happens if you don’t take care of your own issues?
WE CAN NOT FORESEE THEM GOING AWAY.
My friend recently ended a relationship that was not working out. That’s what I was told by her, but I’m not sure if she was telling the truth. She awoke in a bad mood. She had a miserable night’s sleep. In between, things didn’t get any better at all. It took her a long time to overcome her difficulties. She dreaded being alone. Is it any easier now that I’ve waited? Nope. There is nothing you can do about it. As a result, now is a better time than in the future. Your problems don’t mean that the world is going to end. What do you think? Is the universe going to come to a halt because you’ve got a problem? I’d like to wager something with you. Any problem you have, no matter how large, will still be here tomorrow. You have no choice but to deal with your issues. It’s up to you to make your problems go away, not just accept them. What’s the point of whining and moping about it? Do you want to be sympathised with, then? Nothing has changed as a result of this. When you’re done whining, your problem will still be there, waiting for you. Yes, but…” “Yeah,” I respond What’s the matter, then? There’s always a niggle. That doesn’t mean, however, that it’s a cakewalk. Do something different if you want to get rid of your problems. You need to try something else. Make a mental shift. Think in a new way. The alternative is that you’ll constantly believe you’re powerless. It’s because if you already know how to solve your problems, you probably already have. However, the truth is that you didn’t do it. Admitting you have a problem that you can’t solve is the first step. Isn’t it difficult? The good news is that you aren’t doomed. A little extra effort is all that is needed. I appreciate Albert Einstein’s thoughts on finding solutions to our challenges: It is impossible to solve our problems with the same mindset that led to their creation. Do something if you’re having a problem because doing nothing is worse than doing something. Despite this, the majority of people do absolutely nothing. Don’t be like “most people.” Be more than what you seem. Because you must be bigger than your problem if you are to succeed.
